HELPING YOU BE THE MOM YOU WANT TO BE

Therapy for Moms

Online for Women in San Diego + Los Angeles and all of California

You are working hard to break generational patterns and parent different than the way you were raised.

And yet you are keenly aware of all the ways you are missing the mark. You find yourself questioning “am I just like them?” You want to do things different and realize you need to figure this stuff out before your own kids need therapy because of you. You swore you would do things differently. But you just can’t seem to be patient or relaxed enough. The mental load of all the things is exhausting.

There are moments when you are the calm, connected, gentle parent you want to be. But the continual pressure to be perfect is overwhelming and you find yourself snapping, yelling, and on edge. The guilt and shame is immense. Am I messing them up? Will they fear becoming like me someday? Why can’t I figure this out? You sacrifice your own well-being prioritizing everyone else’s needs but find your own cup empty at the end of the day only to repeat the pattern again.

You know the saying ‘it takes a village’ but you’re wondering where does one find this elusive village? Maybe you know you need to ask for help but struggle to let go of control feeling like you are the only one who can do it right.

Let’s take care of you so that you can be the mom you’ve always longed to be.

What if you could…

let go of the fear that you are going to mess up your kids

prioritize your own well-being so that you could show up as the best version of you for your kids

learn ways to calm your own big feelings so that you can help your kids’ with theirs

allow others to help carry some of the emotional and mental load

let go of perfectionism and the guilt and shame that you carry when you make mistakes

embrace being a “good enough” mom who loves her kids and is doing the hard work of re-parenting herself at the same time to break generational cycles

EMDR & Brainspotting Therapy Will Help You…

Understand how generational patterns are impacting your own motherhood journey

Help you heal from your own childhood wounds

Learn ways to regulate your emotions and stay grounded

Parent from a place of peace and intentionality

Learn how to set boundaries that protect your time and energy

Help you to be the mother you want to be

You don’t have to keep striving.

What if you could stop trying to be perfect?